I didn't understand why I broke down yesterday until I started yapping with Amy about the week before. With everything going on, I just didn't have time to catch up with her and I guess that was something I really needed - rather badly considering the state I ended up in. What we managed to figure out was that I've been harbouring frustrations since the 20th, and all because of one person.
On the 20th, my sis and I were invited to a friends' place for their housewarming party, that was also partly in preparation for their wedding the following week. The day itself, the bugger texts us to ask if he could come over to use the computer, knowing that our weekends were out. After being told that he couldn't because we were on our way out, he still asks if we have any plans later that night. Since he was quite close to our friends' place, I gave him a call asking if he wanted to go out and I ended up getting an earful of whining.
Seriously, u can just simply say no and suggest something else. So I end up getting pissed off with Mr Whiney who has finally decided to come over to our place so he could use the computer. Then he just can't let it end there and starts to irritate the hell out of me from the back seat of the cab.
And I know chivalry is almost extinct but couldn't you, knowing you'll be picking my sis and I with the cab, at least sat in the front seat? Looking at u, the driver would be more scared of u jumping him than the other way around.
A few days later, there were plans to go out with a few of my colleagues and since clubbing was better with a bunch of friends, we decided to call Mr Whiney along. All was going alright until Mark had to leave and left me with the car. The whole plan was that I just had to drop them off later at a place where it would be easier to grab a cab and I could drive myself home after.
Fine with me. At the end of the night though, the plan had changed somehow. I ended up having to drive everyone home and was alright with it as long as they knew how to get back. My colleagues made it really simple, knowing every turn to their place. Whiney on the other hand said he could direct me once I got near the place but after finding the stretch of road he had said he was familiar with, he didn't know shit where to go. He didn't even have the brains to say that he could just catch a cab from somewhere so that he'll make it home quick (even after a very direct hint from my sis). Instead, he had the cheek to grumble about us not stopping at McDonald's so that he could've grabbed a bite. What pissed me off here most was that he knew I had to work in a few hours and yet he just wasted everyone's time.
The most irritating part about him is the "I-know-it-all" and the "everyone-should-drop-what-they're-doing-and-entertain-me" attitudes that he carries with him.
When people do entertain u, at least take their advice on what to do, especially if it's shopping advice from a girl. Don't go insulting them and contradicting urself. That just makes u look really stupid. Don't expect everyone who know, especially those you barely know to entertain u. Don't you dare go calling my friend a "rude bitch" either. U don't know her and she doesn't owe u anything. Plus it may be a guy thing, but asking my friend to get u girls cos u want a free fuck isn't the thing I need, or want, to hear. Have u seriously got no brains in there?
Finally, I don't get what he has a cellphone for. If he wants to know what someone is doing, why can't he just call the person up? It might be my sis, but since I'm not living with her at the moment, how would I know what her schedule is.
Plus if u want to know about ur mom, why don't u just call ur mom? Seriously, calling my mom to find out about urs just brands u as stupid. Might as well walk ard with the t-shirt that says "I'm with stupid" and have it pointing at ur head.
Hate That You're Family
