I'm Just Not That Into You

There are times in life when I get so fed up with some people that I really just can't be bothered with them. It gets to the point where I've to question why I even thought to be nice to these people, to become their friend, and especially, why I even kept in contact with them.

What does it take for you to be a friend? Do I have to keep doing you favours (without expecting any in return)? Do I have to keep going 90% so you can stick to doing your 10%? How long does it take to learn a name (unless you decide to change it with the seasons of fashion)?

How is it, that after more than 5 years of knowing someone, the person still can't get your name spelled right? While you can easily use the new name they decided to call themselves in the last 2 years?

How is it that after telling someone you live in a certain place, over and over again, that this person still thinks that u live somewhere else?

As a great friend once said, "A person who treats u as a friend would at least show a bit of concern for your life and remember certain milestones." Backing this up with the question, "If I invited you to my graduation and we met up 2 years later, I'm sure you won't be asking me how is school would you?" So you might think that maybe this person is at the top of my 'friends list', and so I would definitely remember such things. But the point is, 2 years is not a long time to forget that someone has finished school, but some of us might. However, I don't think that you would forget your friend's name in 2 years - if you do, you weren't friends to start with. And if someone has been working at the same place since you met them, will you forget where they worked if you tell them again and again?

The whole thing that's pissing me off is the fact that things haven't really changed with me.

1. I've been working with the same company for almost 2 years, changed jobs for a while, bummed, and then went back to the same company till now, at the very same location.
2. My name, and address, hasn't changed since birth.
3. My phone number hasn't changed since 2002.

So why is it so bloody hard to remember these things when I tell you these facts without being vague? Unlike you who insist on telling me your work location but not your actual workplace.

All these things just make me wonder if I should even waste my time taking your calls or reading your text messages. Sometimes I feel guilty about ignoring messages left on MSN, but now I think I'll just ignore you and just not read the crap you even type. Never have I ever detested someone over such a trivial matter, but I think getting someone's name right is just something you should do out of respect.

Do remember that a BLOCK button is always nearby!