Saturday, December 17, 2011

Why Bother?

Day 17: Your opinion on cheating on people.

If you find someone who you're interested in while you're attached, I don't see why one would rather go behind their partner's back just to explore this other person, than to just say, "I really don't know about us as I seem to find I'm attracted to other people still.". Isn't the whole point about having a relationship to explore more about the other person so that you can make sure that they're the one?
 
However, if you're already married, then seriously what is wrong? Is there something lacking in the marriage? Or is it because they other person did a 180 degree flip in character and personality once all the papers were signed? Or is it the little bit of extra attention you get from the 3rd party?

Well if it's that little bit of attention, then I guess it's time to stop with the hints and just say tell it straight to their face. Well, I personally don't like people beating around the bush and dropping hints. Sometimes hints don't make sense or can make situations much more confusing. If you want something, just say it.

Basically in my books, there's no excuse for cheating. It's a choice, and if you made it, you live with the consequences.

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